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Thursday, July 22, 2010

Church Leadership Corruption: Discussion 5 Information Manipulation

Since local Church leadership is lay leadership, local Church leadership is us – YOU and ME. My intent in writing this essay is so people can evaluate their own behavior, not label or malign others. It also assumes that local Church leadership at the stake and unit level is the only Church leadership corruption that needs to concern ordinary members today. Corrupt Church leadership ABOVE the stake level IS NOT addressed.

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Disclaimer: If anything I say violates scripture, modern revelation or current Church guidance like that contained in the Handbook, I withdraw it. I do not have direct access to all these materials, so I cannot be completely certain that what I am asserting is currently accurate. I hope the reader will absorb my general points and not pick at the details. Most of the details are for illustration purposes only.

These series of postings will consist of eight parts and be posted every three days according to the schedule below.








5.  Information Manipulation

In one unit I was in, my husband and I were astonished to hear our local leaders congratulating unit members during Sacrament meeting, month after month, for achieving 100 percent home teaching. We were astonished because we had not been home taught in months. In fact, for most of that time, we did not even know who our home teachers were.

Exaggeration, embellishment or outright lying about statistics seems to be epidemic in the Church.

Besides the obvious sin of lying, our activities are often determined by what the numbers tell us. Our missionary efforts are determined on the basis of whether we have investigators attending, whether their attendance results in baptisms and whether they remain active after joining. Programs and procedures are adjusted because of numbers. Numbers need to be accurate.

A unit reported enhanced missionary activity because leaders were counting episodes of “investigators taught” when someone dropped by to visit them in their home, even though no lesson or message was imparted.

I had a friend, a BYU professor, tell me that he was in the shower once in the middle of the day when he heard someone knocking on his front door and then his back door. Then he heard his name called. Recognizing the voice of one of his home teachers, he opened the small shower window enough to yell that he was in the shower. The man responded with, “Are you okay?” My friend responded, “Yes.” The man said, “This counts as a visit.” and left.

When numbers are fudged, they often do not have any internal consistency and discrepancies can be identified. Sometimes a unit reports high numbers of investigators attending Sunday meetings. But, if the inflated investigator numbers never actually result in any recorded baptisms; then something is obviously wrong.

If 100 percent home teaching and visiting teaching is reported, but the unit has very low numbers for active members attending on Sunday or other meetings, then something is probably wrong. High numbers of active members are suspect if the unit is experiencing high levels of other issues that indicate core problems, such as moral issues, excessive debt, criminal issues and such.

Numbers are meaningless if they are fudged. Obviously, Heavenly Father knows the truth, the only possible reason for fudging numbers is to try and fool people in this life.

. . . when we break a commandment, we are actually breaking our word, our promises, and our covenants. We are also being dishonest with the Lord and, as a result, are subverting His work. Richard J. Maynes, “The Eternal Importance of Honesty,” Ensign, April 2010, 38–42.

Most of my life I have considered myself a lousy missionary. All my efforts to plant seeds, share the gospel, share my testimony or do much of anything always seemed to be frustrated. I could never figure out how everything seemed to come so effortlessly to others. All these missionary and faith-promoting stories caused me to think that there was something wrong with my efforts; that for some reason, I could not do it or do it properly. I avoided missionary work for this reason. My efforts always seemed to fail.

I have finally concluded that most missionary success is rare rather than common as I had supposed. The few success stories that are accurate are a small percentage of the massive missionary time and effort that bears no fruit at all.

My husband has served as unit missionary leader many times. In one particular unit they initiated some missionary activity. From what he told me from their initial efforts, it was neither a fabulous success nor an abysmal failure. It produced very little in either the short or the long run, but it needed to be done. A handful of lukewarm contacts were made that soon fizzled out to nothing.

This was not how it was presented in our unit. My husband informed unit leaders of the efforts. The next Sunday, in Sacrament meeting, Priesthood and Relief Society, the missionary effort was portrayed as a phenomenal success by a variety of people. I was puzzled, wondering if I had somehow missed something from my husband’s version, but remained quiet. Afterward, my husband and I compared notes and were amazed that the leaders who portrayed it thus were the actual ones he had talked with personally. Obviously, significant distortion had occurred.

It is certainly corruption if a local unit leader exaggerates numbers in order to look good to stake leaders and perhaps pave his way for a stake calling of some sort. The leader’s personal ambition is served, but Heavenly Father’s purposes are not.

Misrepresentation is often intended to make a leader look good.

In a prior posting, I covered how some leaders attempt to reduce their ecclesiastical competition by marginalizing and minimizing others. Misrepresentation can also occur in order to make others look bad.

Stake leaders are dependent on local unit leaders to accurately convey information. An unscrupulous local leader can misrepresent information to stake people, leaving the individuals maligned no recourse in correcting the injustice and often even being unaware of it.

Often the only clues the local people have that this has occurred is that stake people avoid them, treat them suspiciously, dismiss their ideas, not seek their participation, never extend responsible callings or otherwise isolate them physically, emotionally, intellectually, religiously and spiritually.

Individuals have no recourse, but to endure. No mechanisms for redress currently exist in the Church. I am not going to argue that there should be. The protections to prevent or solve these types of problems exist in leadership and the procedures in the Church. Leadership must police itself and those it has jurisdiction over.

In addition, discernment must be sought; so that duplicitous leaders, if they do exist, are unmasked by those in authority. Leaders should seek discernment in all their responsibilities, not just in temple worthiness interviews, but in everything, including evaluating statistics. Formal mechanisms and procedures for members to report wrong-doing do not need to exist, if discernment is sought.

I will illustrate this with an example from a marvelous book by a neglected scholar, Dr. Richard O. Cowan. The book, Temples to Dot The Earth was published by Bookcraft in 1989. The story is from the Logan temple dedication and originally came from page 100 in Temples of the Most High compiled by N.B. Lundwall in 1968.

            To accommodate others who wished to attend, additional dedicatory sessions were scheduled for Sunday and Monday, and about 3,500 more tickets were issued. At one of the three dedicatory sessions, President John Taylor and Charles O. Card stood at the top of the stairs as the throngs were surging into the assembly room. President Taylor noticed a woman whom he did not know, but instructed Brother Card, “Don’t let that woman come into the assembly, she is not worthy.” When asked for an explanation, President Taylor replied: “I know not but the Spirit of God said, ‘She is not worthy.’” Brother Card therefore told the woman she would have to leave. She offered no resistance. When questioned about the matter, she admitted that she had not been able to get a recommend from her bishop, but had purchased one for a dollar from a man on the street.”

This story is compelling because a leader was made aware of a member’s unworthiness when the member was entirely unfamiliar to him. Discernment works, but it must be sought. It prompts the intriguing question of whether a Church leader will be held accountable for not seeking discernment when, if he did, he would have been given insight concerning corrupt stake or unit leaders.

If individuals have been subjected to unrighteous treatment by their Church leader(s) they are in no way responsible for it and they will not be held accountable for it. They must endure as best as they can, acting righteously.

Occasionally it is appropriate to inform a Church leader of wrong-doing by local Church leaders or members; but it must be done to the appropriate people and no others, in the appropriate way, in the appropriate forum. Once done, the members’ responsibility ends. Those in Church leadership with be held accountable for acting or not acting on the information.

We have to remember that Jesus personally selected Judas Iscariot as one of his Apostles. Why? We do not know. Saul, David and Solomon were divinely appointed and selected and allowed to remain even after they had become unrighteous. Heavenly Father obviously extends a great deal of latitude to us in exercising our agency. He obviously allows unrighteous leaders to continue to operate in positions of authority. Why? We do not know.

Murmuring generally does no good and usually does a great deal of harm. Those who murmur harm themselves and the Church itself. Rarely does it affect the leader(s) they are murmuring against. If it does affect the leader, the leader is often denied support in activities where support should be extended. The leader is not the Church, but murmuring against leaders always affects the Church’s programs, activities, and ultimately, its people.

5 comments:

  1. I read several of your posts. I am sorry that you choose to shed such a negative light on the church and its members when you could very easily share faith-promoting stories and things that are "virtuous, lovely, or of good report, or praiseworthy."

    I guess as that academia went to your head AND your heart.

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  2. I am sorry the anonymous poster above chose to attack ME rather than the MERIT of what I say. I anticipated that this would probably happen and I will address it more in the final 8th posting.

    The poster also assumed that the problem stems from all of my formal education. There is no basis on which to conclude this.

    I like to share faith promoting stories and things that are "virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy" but only if they are true. I believe lies conducted for this purpose are self-defeating.

    This anonymous poster's comment is appended to #5 where I condemn lying. I will never condone lying on any grounds even if it is for purposes that are supposedly, "virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy.

    I would like to point out again the disclaimer I include on every post in this series as well as underscore that all my postings encourage people to follow scripture, modern prophets and the policies, guidelines and procedures of the Church, especially The Handbook.

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  3. I found your website and really appreciate your effort and the quality of what you have written. I have had experiences with church leaders that nearly destroyed me and my family. I am a convert and thought church leaders were inspired and trustworthy. I now understand that the Lord calls leaders to try and test us. Because of this I fast and pray weekly and try to get sufficient inspiration so I don't get led astray. Thank you again.

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  4. It was kind of eerie reading the Dec. 14 post by Anonymous. I am a convert and have had experiences with church leaders that have nearly destroyed me and my family, in fact numerous experiences. Like the aforementioned poster I now fast weekly to hopefully be able to protect myself and my family. And I also have come to the conclusion that the Lord tries and tests us through our leaders. I thought I could trust them but I was being very naive. Because of their authority they are in a position to do a lot of damage. From our stake about 5 or 6 leaders, both male and female have been excommunicated, and all of them were fine people who got on the wrong path. And it is unfortunate but they took others down with them. I think it is extremely important that we pray regularly for our leaders, because they are subject to being deceived and in turn deceiving us. Thank you for your website. It will be an influence for good in the lives of many people.

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  5. I've reread your post several times. I agree with what your intent and spirit are in writing these things. I just wish there was a “safe area,” a “no-penalty zone” where we could talk about things. And that there was a good way to confront a leader or leaders who are doing this.

    What to do? For me, I do it one issue at a time. Following “The One-Minute Manager” Feedback sandwich may be helpful: compliment-conern-compliment. Carnegie and Covey can help too, with the 3rd Way protocols, and Crucial Confrontations and Crucial Conversations may be helpful.

    Also keep in mind these two quotes:

    1. “The matter of consecration must be done by the mutual consent of both parties; for to give the Bishop power to say how much every man shall have, and he be obliged to comply with the Bishop's judgment, is giving to the Bishop more power than a king has; and, upon the other hand, to let every man say how much he needs, and the Bishop be obliged to comply with his judgment, is to throw Zion into confusion, and make a slave of the Bishop. The fact is, there must be a balance or equilibrium of power, between the Bishop and the people; and thus harmony and good-will may be preserved among you.” Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, 23.

    That is, when there is no equilibrium of power, we legitimately are under a spiritual dictatorship.

    2.“Brethren, keep your eye on the President of this church. If he tells you to do anything and it is wrong and you do it, the Lord will bless you for it. But you don't need to worry; the Lord will never let His mouthpiece lead this people astray.” Pres. Heber J. Grant quoted by Harold B. Lee, Teachings of Harold B. Lee, 530.

    This last one is harder to swallow and digest. Sometimes we have to do what a spiritual dictator says (but not to go to the devil, as Brigham Young warned [Discourses of Brigham Young, 200]), and we will be blessed. Eventually people WILL and DO get released.

    Also, no one is going to hell because a leader makes a mistake, or abuses his power. God is bigger than that.

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